Books About Paid Sex Are Stripped of Desire
December 18th, 2006 by admin
Anneli Rufus tours the hot genre of sex worker books and finds it compulsively sickening. Sarah Katherine Lewis’s memoir (Seal, 2006) “joins a string of new books about adult entertainers, along with Diablo Cody’s self-consciously comic (Gotham, 2006) and gender studies professor Bernadette Barton’s polemical (NYU, 2006).
The publishing industry is funny that way. Some honcho sniffs a trend in the air, word leaks out like blood at the beach, then boom: one year it’s all queer cowboys all the time. Or diets that let you eat lard. Right now it’s lap dancers.
“In this latter-day phase of stripper chic,” continues Rufus, “academics such as Barton churn out doctoral dissertations about peep shows and shimmering poles. Middle-class 20-something smarties write memoirs about ditching drone jobs in cafes and offices for ‘the penis gallery,’ to quote prep-school grad Cody, whose Pussy Ranch blog led to a six-figure advance for Candy Girl, and who is now a millionaire screenwriter working on a project with Steven Spielberg …”
“… Yeah, but the hate. These books are really less about sex than about loathing the customers. We see them depicted as groveling, foul-smelling, pathetic, perverted, laughable in their need and their loneliness. Cody mocks the ’standard model short, pink Minnesota dick,’ the glaze-eyed losers who ‘point dumbly’ and beg. Lewis, whose honesty makes hers the best in this trio, makes no bones about wanting to kill the men who ask her to help them ejaculate. “As I ran my hands over Steve’s spine, I imagined myself stabbing him in the back. For maximum damage I’d have to work the knife in between the bumps of his spinal column. … Fuck you is what I’m thinking. … Stabby stabby.”
Is this the new porn? asks Rufus. Or the death of feeling good about sex of any kind? Read her piece at Alternet .
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